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Ages 12 to 36 months

What this month often needs

A blog and handbook for the stretch that moves fast. Read the season you are in. Open a post when one problem is running the week. Then talk with your child's clinician. This is a guide, not a scorecard.

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This week

The 18-month visit is a screen, not a quiz

The American Academy of Pediatrics asks clinicians to use standardized screens at this visit. A screen gathers information. It does not grade your child.

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A toddler in a sage hoodie crouches on backyard grass arranging wooden blocks and felt balls while an adult in a cream sweater watches from behind.

First daycare drop-off

A short goodbye. Tears at the door are common.

A toddler in a cream henley cruises along a wooden cabinet on a light wood floor while an adult sits on the rug behind them and smiles.

Picky eating at 2

You offer. They decide. A full plate coming back is ordinary.

A white potty chair, a small wooden stool, and a folded washcloth sit on light bathroom tile.

Potty readiness signs

Watch for a cluster of signs, not a birthday.

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Screen time limits ages 2-3

About an hour of high-quality media, with you in the room.

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18-month sleep regressions

Keep the day total and a boring wind-down.

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Speech milestones 18-24 months

CDC's most-children lists, not a home quiz.

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Tantrums in public

Safety, a nearby adult, the same limit as at home.

Start with the season

Ages hub

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12 to 18 months

First steps, first words

Walking, pointing, and a few words besides mama or dada.

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18 to 24 months

Independence with a look back

More words, more will, and screens at the clinic, not the kitchen table.

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24 to 36 months

Sentences and self

Two-word phrases stretch toward conversation. Pretend play gets plots.

Everyday pillars

A wooden house-shaped nightlight with star cutouts glows beside a stack of botanical picture books, folded cream and teal blankets, and star-patterned pillows on a rug.

Hours and a wind-down

Most 1- and 2-year-olds need 11 to 14 hours in a day, including naps.

A toddler in a cream henley cruises along a wooden cabinet on a light wood floor while an adult sits on the rug behind them and smiles.

You offer. They decide.

Whole milk, water, and food from the family table. Juice is optional and small.

Cream toddler Velcro shoes and a sage sippy cup sit on a woven rug in a sunlit entryway beside a wooden bench, a plant, and a basket of textiles.

Wanted behaviors first

Name the feeling, keep the limit, and notice the behavior you want tomorrow.