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A rag doll in a pink dress lies on a hardwood floor among colorful wooden blocks and crayon stubs. A basket and a fringed rug sit in the background.

Age band

24 to 36 months

Two-word phrases stretch toward conversation. Pretend play gets plots. The 24-month visit repeats autism screening. The 30-month visit is a general developmental screen.

By 30 months and 3 years

From CDC by 30 months and 3 years: about 50 words, action words, pretend play, calmer drop-off for most children by 3, and talk that other people understand most of the time.

Life in this band

For children 2 to 5, AAP limits digital media to about 1 hour a day of high-quality programming, with an adult present. Toilet training remains a readiness question, not a deadline.

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A toddler in a sage hoodie crouches on backyard grass arranging wooden blocks and felt balls while an adult in a cream sweater watches from behind.
Care

First daycare drop-off

A short goodbye. Tears at the door are common.
A toddler in a cream henley cruises along a wooden cabinet on a light wood floor while an adult sits on the rug behind them and smiles.
Food

Picky eating at 2

You offer. They decide. A full plate coming back is ordinary.
A white potty chair, a small wooden stool, and a folded washcloth sit on light bathroom tile.
Self-care

Potty readiness signs

Watch for a cluster of signs, not a birthday.
A tablet lies face-down on a wood table beside a hardcover book and a bowl of apple slices. In the background, an adult and toddler stand at a kitchen sink.
Media

Screen time limits ages 2-3

About an hour of high-quality media, with you in the room.
An adult in a dark green shirt leans into a car and buckles a toddler in a cream knit sweater into a harnessed car seat.
Language

Speech milestones 18-24 months

CDC's most-children lists, not a home quiz.
Cream toddler Velcro shoes and a sage sippy cup sit on a woven rug in a sunlit entryway beside a wooden bench, a plant, and a basket of textiles.
Behavior

Tantrums in public

Safety, a nearby adult, the same limit as at home.