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The 30-month well visit

Thirty months is a general developmental screen. Most children say about 50 words and put two or more words together with an action word. Bring what you hear.

A parent writes in a small notepad on a wooden waiting-room chair while a toddler in cream knit clothes sits beside them near a window and plants.

A parent writes in a small notepad on a wooden waiting-room chair while a toddler in cream knit clothes sits beside them near a window and plants.

AAP recommends general developmental screening at 9, 18, and 30 months. CDC on monitoring and screening is the parent explainer. The 30-month visit is easy to miss because it is not a round birthday. Put it on the calendar anyway.

CDC milestones by 30 months says most children play next to other children and sometimes with them, show you a skill, follow a simple clean-up routine, say about 50 words, put two or more words together with an action word, name pictures, use words such as I, me, or we, pretend with objects, follow two-step instructions, show they know at least one color, twist lids, take off some clothes, jump with both feet, and turn book pages one at a time.

That is a long list. It is still a most-children list. Use it to notice. Do not administer it as a quiz in the waiting room.

Try this

  1. Book the 30-month visit when you leave the 24-month visit.
  2. Write a few example sentences: go car, want milk, daddy up.
  3. Ask what the general screen is and how you will hear results.
  4. Ask about potty readiness only if you are actually starting.
  5. Ask about media and sleep if the house has drifted.

By 3 years, most children talk in at least two back-and-forth exchanges and are understood most of the time by people outside the house. If you are approaching 3 and that feels far, do not wait for the birthday party. Ask now.

This visit is also a chance to talk about childcare, car seats, and whether the house still matches a climber. Bring the ordinary problems. They belong here as much as the growth curve.

In the house this month

Put the 30-month visit on the calendar when you book the 24-month one. People forget this visit because it is not a cake age. It is a screening age.

Fifty words is a most-children line, not a vocabulary test you administer with flashcards. Listen for a week. Write the ones you hear. Bring the paper.

If childcare has concerns you have not heard at home, ask both places to describe the same ten minutes. Different rooms show different children. The clinician needs both rooms.

Ask what comes after 3: preschool screens, hearing, vision. The next year arrives faster than the last one did.

What you can skip

Skip forgetting this visit because there is no cake. Skip a flashcard quiz in the lobby.

Skip waiting for the third birthday if words and play worry you now.

Keep the range in view

Book it. It is a general screen, not a cake age. About 50 words for most children, plus pretend and two-step directions. Ask for results. Do not wait for 3 if you are worried now.

Keep the range in view

If childcare has concerns you have not seen at home, ask both rooms to describe the same ten minutes. The clinician needs both rooms, not a blended myth.

Check in if

If the screen is skipped and you have a concern, ask your pediatrician for it. If play with other children never happens and words are few, say both to the pediatrician.

Related ages: 24-36 months. Pillars: Behavior.

Sources

  1. CDC. Milestones by 30 months. cdc.gov/act-early/milestones/30-months.html
  2. CDC. Developmental monitoring and screening. cdc.gov/act-early
  3. Lipkin PH, Macias MM. Promoting optimal development through surveillance and screening. Pediatrics. 2020;145(1):e20193449. publications.aap.org